Achieving Business Excellence with John Spence

It Is All About Perspective

John Spence on Perspective

 

 

 

 

 

As most of you who read my blog know, I read a lot… an average of 100 or more business books a year and a good number of books on other topics as well.  I also read fast, I can typically get through a 250 page book in just a few hours.  So it is significant when I get to a 157-page book that takes me literally weeks to get through because there’s so much great information.  This is how it has been reading “The Stoic Art of Living,” an absolutely amazing book written my very good friend and philosopher, Tom Morris.  As an example, it took me a good 10 days just to get past the first paragraph because it stopped me in my tracks and made me think and rethink what he was saying.  Let me quote the specific lines that captured me:

“If you live long enough and pay attention to what you see, you may come to understand one of the deepest truths about life: Inner resilience is the secret to outer results in this world.  Challenging times demand inner strength and a spirit that will not be defeated.  And, as a philosopher, I’ve come to understand that nearly all the times we live in are in some sense challenging. 

When things are really bad, it’s hard to keep your faith.  When things are very good, it’s tough to keep your head.  In tragedy, it’s difficult to be hopeful.  In triumph, it’s hard to be humble.  In either case, maintaining a proper perspective on life is the challenge. And in those occasionally long stretches of time when things seem to be not either great or terrible, it’s often tough to remember and prepare for the amazing extremes that life can hold.”

Perspective…gaining and applying perspective in life is so very crucial.

Let me give you an example:  On August 24th, 1992, I lived in Miami when hurricane Andrew came through.  My house was down on Biscayne Bay just a few hundred feet from the water’s edge.  The storm surge from the hurricane filled my home with more than 11 feet of water and destroyed everything I owned.  I lost all my photographs, paintings, wine collection, boat, furniture, TV, stereo – the only thing I escaped with was a bag of clothes and cooler with some food and water.  For 13 weeks I lived out of my truck and in an abandoned apartment sleeping on a mattress on the floor surrounded by broken glass, fiberglass and dead cockroaches.  And it is one of the greatest things that has ever happen to me…because now I know… it is all just STUFF.

When you wake up one morning and everything you own is gone, and you have no way to get it back right away, you have to learn a new perspective about “stuff.” Now don’t get me wrong, I love nice things, I enjoy beautiful paintings and family photos, and I surely love good wine…but if I found out today that my house burned to the ground, as long as my wife and my dog were fine, it’s no big deal at all – it’s just stuff.  So although hurricane Andrew was traumatic, challenging and very, very difficult, it was also an incredible lesson in perspective that has literally changed that way I look at my life.

Which brings me to one last, but extremely important point: you are the one that creates your own perspective.  You create the lens through which you see the entire world and all the things that happen to you.  You can choose a perspective of happiness, joy, adventure, excitement and love…or you can choose a perspective of pain, misery, unfairness, and pessimism.

Just remember this: the choice is always yours and yours alone!

 

 

A Powerful Success Habit

A guest blog from my very good friend, Matt Tenney…

Typically, when considering approaches to improve business outcomes, we compartmentalize.  We look at ways to improve overall strategy, the skills of our leaders, sales, customer service, etc. 

What if there were something very simple that we could do personally, moment-to-moment, that has a significant impact on nearly every area of our professional or business success – a sort of “success habit”? 

The simple practice of mindfulness is just such a habit.  This is why many leading companies like Google, Intel, Raytheon, General Mills, and Genentech offer mindfulness training for leaders and employees in all positions.

Mindfulness training is just a simple shift in perspective that allows us to create and maintain some space between ourselves and our thoughts/emotions.  As simple as this sounds, making mindfulness a habit has numerous links directly to the bottom line.  Below are three examples:

 

 

1.       Increased Stress Resilience – Perhaps the most well-researched benefit of the practice of mindfulness is helping people to face stressful situations with a reduced adverse stress response.  Reducing the adverse effects of stress has a direct impact on profit because it helps people to be more creative, make better decisions, be more productive while at work, miss less days due to illness, and reduce health care costs. 

2.       People Skills / Emotional Intelligence – There is now a tremendous amount of research demonstrating what thought leaders like Dale Carnegie had said for decades: The single most important ingredient for high levels of performance, especially as leaders, is emotional intelligence, commonly referred to simply as “people skills.”  Mindfulness is arguably the most effective method there is for increasing emotional intelligence, which is why one of the most popular training programs at Google is a mindfulness-based, emotional intelligence program called Search Inside Yourself (there is a great book by the same name, written by Google exec Chade-Meng Tan, which I highly recommend). 

3.       Mental Agility – Mental agility allows us to quickly adapt to a rapidly-changing business environment: an invaluable skill.  Also, in cutting edge research in behavioral finance, mental agility has been identified as one of the two most important predictors of whether or not a person will be profitable over the long term.   Mindfulness was designed to increase mental agility and has been shown in research to do so.

Although not easy, mindfulness training is very simple.  We can create the aforementioned shift in perspective simply by mentally noting what we’re doing now.  If we’re sitting and waiting, we just silently say in the mind, “Sitting and waiting.”  If we’ve done that, we’ve just created space between ourselves and our thoughts/emotions.  The trick is maintaining that perspective!  To do that while still, we can simply maintain awareness of our breathing.  To maintain mindfulness during activity, we can simply be curious about what our present moment experience is like, keeping our awareness open to what’s happing now.  When we get pulled into our thoughts again, we just mentally note, “Distracted,” and open our awareness once again.  Repeat as necessary.

In service,

matt tenney

Matt Tenney is a professional speaker and trainer, a mindfulness teacher, and author of the book From the Brig to the Boardroom: Why Mindfulness Is the Ultimate Shortcut to Success.  To contact Matt, visit www.MattTenney.com.

Three Levels of Leadership

In the last week I’ve had the opportunity to work with three great organization on leadership development. I started the week at Duke University with the National Association of Federal Credit Unions for their Management Development Institute, then spent two days with the Florida Recreation and Parks Association for the Abrahams Academy Leadership School and finally I ended the week with the wonderful folks from the Florida Hospital for their Leadership Development Institute.  I learned a TON of great things and wanted to share them with you… this video is a little long (25 minutes) BUT – it has many very powerful ideas for being an “Ideal Leader” — how to be a great self-leader — and what you need to focus on in order to be a superb organizational leader. I hope you enjoy that video and please share it with everyone you feel might find value in the ideas I share.

Three Levels of Leadership from John Spence on Vimeo.

 

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90 Quotes That Will Change The Way You Think

I was surfing the web and came across the following blog on Marc and Angle Hack Life: Practical Tips for Productive Living. Their 60 are awesome, but I added another 30 that were impactful to my thinking.  I welcome, no, I strongly encourage you to PLEASE add your favorite quotes in the comments section below – let’s make this a truly life-changing list!

 60 Quotes That Will Change The Way You Think…

In your quiet moments, what do you think about?  How far you’ve come, or how far you have to go?  Your strengths, or your weaknesses?  The best that might happen, or the worst that might come to be?  In your quiet moments, pay attention to your thoughts.  Because maybe, just maybe, the only thing that needs to shift in order for you to experience more happiness, more love, and more vitality, is your way of thinking. [Read more...]

The Art of Achievement

A key idea about leadership and a truly fantastic book…

The Most Important Thing I Have Ever Learned…

Recently I was deeply honored to be asked to give a TED talk at the University of Florida TEDx event. Ben Erez and his team did an amazing job setting up the event and brought in a sell-out crowd of 1,600 TED fanatics. I thought since I was a “Top 100 Business Thought Leader” they would ask me to speak about business excellence or leadership… but Ben had a different idea in mind for what he wanted me to talk about!  I truly hope you enjoy this video and PLEASE share it with as many people as you can – I think there are a few very good ideas here. Enjoy!!

I hope that if you found value in this video –  that you will take a moment to leave a comment AND share it with everyone you feel might enjoy watching it – thanks so very much – John

John Spence is the author of “Awesomely Simple – Essential Business Strategies for Turning Ideas into Action.” He is an award-wining professional speaker and corporate trainer, and has twice been recognized as one of the Top 100 Business Thought Leaders in America and also as one of the most admired Small Business Experts in the nation.

The Slight Edge

The 12 in 2012 Challenge!!!!!

 

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Here are just a few VERY good books that I recommend — PLEASE feel free to add you suggestions!!!

 


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Three Amazing Resources